5 Successful BBW Dating relationship tips to find love!
admin | Jan 06, 2010 | Comments 0
So it is a New Year, the beginning of a new decade actually. 2010, here we come. If you are a big beautiful woman that is still single and you want to make that leap into being in a relationship, here are some pointers that could show you where you might have been going wrong and what you could do about it.
1.) Seize the moment
You never know where you might come into contact with someone you fancy. It could be on an online dating site or on your way to work or even in the supermarket. Wherever it may be, try to make the first move rather than waiting for guys to come to you. This puts you in control of the whole dating experience. Better you make that move and find out for sure if it is a relationship worth pursuing or just a dream. Either way, you find out for sure and not wonder what might have been. Carpe Diem – Seize the moment, seize the day.
2.) Increase your social circle of friends
With most people now on major social networking sites, it isn’t a bad idea to have a presence online as well. You do not need to have all your details online for every man and his dog to see so make sure you adjust the privacy settings and post only information you are sure won’t embarrass you down the line. You can also join dating sites and as a plus size single, there are dating BBW sites that cater specifically for you and men that admire you. Try and learn from the friends and dates you make online as it will help you become a better person and more adept when you do eventually meet someone you click with.
3.) Date people you wouldn’t normally date.
If you have a “type” of guy you love dating for instance the “bad boy type or Mummy’s Boy” and things aren’t working then maybe it’s high time you changed your type. If you continue to choose these ‘types’ is it a wonder you get the same results? Be willing to change your perceptions of others so as to embrace serious relationships. No one is suggesting you go for someone you find unattractive or someone you have nothing in common with but it might be time to prioritize what’s really important to you. Would you rather date the exciting bad boy with all the drama who won’t commit or the guy who is less exciting but with whom you can have a meaningful relationship with.
4.) Know your worth
Everyone is unique and those little quirks are what make us who we are. Rather than focussing on the negatives in your life, acknowledge them and try to change them for the better but don’t dwell on them. Instead, find the many positives in your life and why someone would be lucky to have you. Positivity leads to confidence and identity and the realisation that you are responsible for your destiny. So make the most of life. Don’t waste time on dates you KNOW are going nowhere. Sit down in a quiet room and listen to that inner voice and remember, a journey of a thousand miles always begins with a little step. Value yourself and you are less likely to accept anyone treating you shabbily ensuring you attract the right kind of person.
5.) Be patient
Try not to set imaginary deadlines as to when you must be in a relationship. By all means prioritize dating. Like everything else in life that is important you have to set time aside to meeting the right person and making things work after that. If however you haven’t met your Mr. Right don’t put yourself under any more pressure than is necessary otherwise you’ll end up in a relationship for the wrong reasons. You also need to be patient when you do meet potential Mr. Right. It might take some time before either of you feels ready to meet. By having patience and giving each other space, it allows both parties to step back assess each other critically.
Hopefully, bearing these tips in mind will help in setting you on the right path to establishing a happy and fruitful relationship and becoming the best person you can be for now and the future.
This article was first published on CurvyDate.co.uk, a UK dating BBW site and a place to mingle with plus size singles.
Related posts:
Filed Under: Dating Articles • Featured Articles
